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✨More Than Just Being in Love: How to Build a Relationship with True Depth
Beyond Romance and Feelings — How a Shared Vision Creates a Lasting Relationship
Love — a topic that affects us all, and in some way, each of us has our own interpretation of it. For me, love is a theme that has inspired poets, philosophers, and everyday people alike for as long as we can remember. But what is the true essence of love to me? I believe Antoine de Saint-Exupéry nails it perfectly when he says in The Little Prince: “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.”
It may sound simple, but to me, there is so much more behind it. Love is not just about romance, feelings, or physical attraction. It’s about a deeper connection that goes far beyond these superficial aspects.
What does it mean to “look outward together in the same direction”?
· Shared Visions and Goals: It means that you and your partner are pursuing the same dreams and goals. Whether it’s in your careers, family life, or personal growth, you support each other and face the ups and downs together. For me, this is a crucial point — growing and dreaming together.
· Shared Values and Beliefs: A strong relationship is built on the things you share. Shared values and beliefs make all the…